Procrastination; The Bane and Its Solution
A little sleep, a little slumber, a little folding of the hands to rest - and poverty will come on you like a thief and scarcity like an armed man. (Proverbs 6:10-11 NIV)
If you read my post on distraction, and I’m sure you picked
a thing or two from it, get ready to meet its comrade, procrastination.
Another very effective weapon in the arsenal of failure,
procrastination is yet another one of those things that has kept countless
people from fulfilling their destinies, achieving goals, and making other
positive strides in their lives.
Before I proceed, let’s defined procrastination properly so
we know exactly what we are talking about. Procrastination, gotten from
procrastinate (from Latin words pro- forward, and cras – tomorrow), simply
means to put off intentionally and habitually. In other words, it’s waiting to
do later, what should be done in the present. Procrastination, Mr P, should not
be mistaken for scheduling, or planning (we should have a post next month on
time management, hopefully), procrastination is neither.
Often borne out of sheer laziness, it is even worse than distraction,
Mr D, as it doesn’t even let you get started on the task at all. To give a few
instances, where distraction waits for you to start reading before it makes you
stop, or takes away your focus, Mr P tells you to not even start reading at
all. When Mr D makes you burn that pot of rice because he took your mind away,
Mr P says you can cook the food later, you’re not that hungry after all. Mr D
gets you to play games just as soon as you start reading, Mr P doesn’t even put
reading on your schedule at all. We could go on and on with the examples, but
take a moment right now to imagine these two in partnership against one person.
Failure in leaps and bounds await such a fellow!
As we smile over this, it is safe for me to assume that no
adult has never fought and lost a battle with Mr P, the experienced veteran. The
battle with procrastination though, is one of those things you can’t blame
yourself for initially falling victim to, but you are to blame if you remain a
victim. But why do people procrastinate? This might be for the following
reasons:
1. Just plain laziness
Lazy people like no work, at all. They can even be too lazy
to feed themselves (I speak here of just having to fetch already prepared food
for them to eat), take a bath, or even wash their mouth. It can always be done
later, they say, until it’s never done.
2. Distraction
If you still haven’t checked out our post on distraction,
please take a moment to do so already. Distraction takes people away from their
actual focus. Trivial things become priorities and every other thing can wait.
This is very common among teenagers and youths. Countless number
of boys, including me, have shifted domestic chores for a game of football at
some point in their lives. It so often starts out as just one match, for 10
minutes, then another 10 minutes. Friends join in, and the chores are
forgotten. We might have healed from the beatings we got when caught and
disciplined, but we made our lessons in discipline drag a little longer.
3. No desire/passion
It is one thing to get a horse to the stream, and it is another
to get it to drink the water. People who are asked to do things they have
little desire tend to look for all possible ways to avoid the tasks. Mr P comes
on scene and doesn’t disappoint. “Just put it off till later” is the voice they
hear, the ever friendly adviser.
4. Poor sense of duty
There are those smart ones who always find a way to put off
work, hoping someone else would do it. This is particularly common in families
with 4 children or more, and is also a common feature in groups of similar age
grades, schools, and offices among others.
Most fun lovers feel a very low sense of duty or commitment towards
tasks that require effort, so they push it as far as they can
How to Overcome Procrastination
1. Determination
If you realise that you are easily given in to
procrastination, the first step I suggest you take is a determination to break
out of it. Do a review of yourself, identify your areas of weakness, and make
up your mind to break out of the hold that Mr P has over your mind.
2. Discipline
3. Instant response to tasks
Adopt a lifestyle of a person who does thongs immediately
the task is assigned. Waiting to carry out immediate tasks does not make the
task any easier. If you learn to employ the immediate approach, you find that
seemingly difficult tasks are not as tough as they initially appeared.
4. Build support systems
Build a team, or at least have a person who positively
impacts you. Whether it’s a person or a team, learn to be accountable to
someone. This means that the person or group can question your activities and
schedule and you truly answer. This would guide you into being more conscious
of the actions you take or do not take.
Be careful though, that you choose a person or group with
better responses to tasks than you for this job. If you pick your fellow slackers,
you would be stuck in the valley of procrastination for a very long time.
5. Use checklists
Write your tasks down and tick the ones you do. Commit yourself to achieving certain tasks within a certain time and do all it takes to accomplish your mission. This would help you become better organised and would increase your productivity.6. Reward yourself
Make it a habit to reward yourself for certain milestone
achievements you hit on your checklist. You could have enough free time for
leisure, or even enough cash to take yourself out, and that’s fine. After all,
what do they say about all work and no play?
With these few points of mine, I hope I have been able to
convince you and not confuse you that Mr P isn’t one person you need in life.
Do drop your comments and questions. Our story drops
tomorrow!
Stay smart!
6 Comments
A good read
ReplyDeleteNice post hope to read anoda 1 the sky is ur starting point
ReplyDeleteThanks for the comments.
Delete😪 this was a tough one because I kept thinking of myself and hoping to divorce Mr D and Mr P for life!
ReplyDeleteThanks for this Willy.
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Favourite Reader, thank you.
DeleteBut why did you marry them both? 😩
This is a very nice piece, I enjoyed reading this, good job Willy
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